Words matter. The words you use influence the thoughts you think. Those thoughts influence the life you live and the reality you perceive. If you want your relationship with your horse to be one of trust and ease, paying attention to the words you choose and the meaning you give them will make more difference than you will believe. In the first series of The Happy Horse books, I wrote 'Get the human part right, and the horse part will follow'. This is all about the human part. Happy horsing.